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Ms. Que Banh<p>I've been doing more healing work to recover from being abusively <a href="https://beige.party/tags/blindsided" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>blindsided</span></a> by a jealous woman who I have never even met but had attempted to psychologically <a href="https://beige.party/tags/blackmail" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>blackmail</span></a> my companion, after faking being nice to me. I never expected to be <a href="https://beige.party/tags/suckerpunched" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>suckerpunched</span></a> by a woman I've never even met in person. It shook me. It traumatized me. It was NOT OK.</p><p>Never ever defend <a href="https://beige.party/tags/abusive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>abusive</span></a> people who have violated <a href="https://beige.party/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a> multiple times &amp; harmed multiple people, intentionally.</p>
Dave Mackey<p>"While I am responsible for changing what I can, I have to let go of the rest if I want peace of mind. Just for today I will love myself enough to give up a struggle over something that is out of my hands." - Courage to Change (Al-Anon), pg. 129</p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/serenity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>serenity</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/mentalhealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mentalhealth</span></a></p>
KUVO Playlist<p>11:19pm Boundaries by Poppy Daniels from Boundaries<br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/PoppyDaniels" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PoppyDaniels</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/MondayJazzOdyssey" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MondayJazzOdyssey</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/KUVO" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>KUVO</span></a></p>
Envision Therapy DFW<p>Some of your biggest losses come when you finally start growing. The people who once felt close may pull away—not because you became someone worse, but because you became someone who could no longer be controlled. <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/healingishard" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>healingishard</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/emotionalgrowth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>emotionalgrowth</span></a></p><p><a href="https://envisiontherapydfw.com/when-you-start-growing-not-everyone-will-stay/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">envisiontherapydfw.com/when-yo</span><span class="invisible">u-start-growing-not-everyone-will-stay/</span></a></p>
Just nihilist comedy<a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/meme?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#meme</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/memes?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#memes</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/funny?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#funny</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/memesdaily?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#memesdaily</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/lol?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#lol</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/humor?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#humor</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/memesoffediverse?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#memesoffediverse</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/memesofmastodon?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#memesofmastodon</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/memesofpixelfed?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#memesofpixelfed</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/nihilism?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#nihilism</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/nihilistmemes?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#nihilistmemes</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/capitalism?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#capitalism</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/humansoflatecapitalism?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#humansoflatecapitalism</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/justnihilistcomedy?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#justnihilistcomedy</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/no?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#no</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/boundaries?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#boundaries</a>
PhloXO<p>Why do people DM me instead of responding to to my posts? For the record and such, I would rather people not DM me. In fact, I would rather hear from you or you or you in public... a DM from someone I have never met presumes too much... let's not presume...</p><p><a href="https://zirk.us/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a> <br><a href="https://zirk.us/tags/space" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>space</span></a> <br><a href="https://zirk.us/tags/civility" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>civility</span></a></p>
MedixLife<p>Struggling with boundaries? 🚧 These personal space rules will save your mental energy! 💆‍♂️ Learn how to set healthy limits in relationships, work &amp; digital life. Your well-being matters—start protecting your space today! </p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/MentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MentalHealth</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SelfCare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfCare</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/PersonalSpace" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PersonalSpace</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Wellbeing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Wellbeing</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Mindfulness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Mindfulness</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/StressRelief" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>StressRelief</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/HealthyLiving" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>HealthyLiving</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/EmotionalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>EmotionalHealth</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/WorkLifeBalance" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>WorkLifeBalance</span></a> </p><p><a href="https://www.medixlife.com/personal-space-rules-that-save-mental-energy-today/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">medixlife.com/personal-space-r</span><span class="invisible">ules-that-save-mental-energy-today/</span></a></p>
Coffeedate with ADHD<p>And i will feel guilty about this for weeks.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/adhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adhd</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/adhs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adhs</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/adhdbrain" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adhdbrain</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/adhdmeme" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adhdmeme</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/meme" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>meme</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/mentalhealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mentalhealth</span></a></p>
Court Cantrell prefers not to<p>It's Monday. Hope y'all are having a day! ("Have a good day" seems like a lot of pressure in these times.)</p><p>I wrote a thing about <br>euphemism<br>the Left<br>doge<br>Musk <br>the destruction of the commons<br>and trauma.</p><p>Here's the first part:<br>the Lack in the Left<br><a href="https://courtcan.com/2025/04/10/the-lack-in-the-left/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">courtcan.com/2025/04/10/the-la</span><span class="invisible">ck-in-the-left/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/euphemism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>euphemism</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/theLeft" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>theLeft</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/doge" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>doge</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ElonMusk" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ElonMusk</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/theOther" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>theOther</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/theLack" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>theLack</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/thePublic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>thePublic</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/theCommons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>theCommons</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a></p>
Envision Therapy DFW<p>Not all boundaries are built from empowerment—some are built from betrayal. If your strongest boundaries were formed after broken trust, they may have protected you once—but now might be keeping you from connection. In this blog, we explore how emotional wounds shape our limits, how to tell the difference between protection and avoidance, and how to rebuild boundaries that feel like strength—not survival. <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/betrayal" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>betrayal</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/reparenting" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>reparenting</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/innerchild" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>innerchild</span></a></p><p><a href="https://envisiontherapydfw.com/when-boundaries-are-born-from-betrayal/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">envisiontherapydfw.com/when-bo</span><span class="invisible">undaries-are-born-from-betrayal/</span></a></p>
Su_G<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://aus.social/@coolandnormal" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>coolandnormal</span></a></span> </p><p>This resonates: “People are so used to being walked all over by their tech that they're increasingly shocked by boundaries.” 😐 </p><p><a href="https://aus.social/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/consent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>consent</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/technology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>technology</span></a> <a href="https://aus.social/tags/doormats" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>doormats</span></a></p>
JustAve<p>If you've ever gone from "I spilled my coffee." to "Why is everything on fire?!" in under and hour, this one's for you.<br>Because sometimes, surviving the day is the win.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/momlife" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>momlife</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/stressfree" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>stressfree</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/taskmanagement" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>taskmanagement</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/reflection" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>reflection</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/humor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>humor</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a></p><p><a href="http://ittybitty4life.com/2025/04/09/how-to-handle-overwhelming-days-without-losing-your-mind-or-your-keys/?utm_source=mastodon&amp;utm_medium=jetpack_social" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">http://</span><span class="ellipsis">ittybitty4life.com/2025/04/09/</span><span class="invisible">how-to-handle-overwhelming-days-without-losing-your-mind-or-your-keys/?utm_source=mastodon&amp;utm_medium=jetpack_social</span></a></p>
Deutschland<p><a href="https://www.europesays.com/de/15360/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="">europesays.com/de/15360/</span><span class="invisible"></span></a> Boundaries am 05. April 2025 im MusikZentrum in Hannover <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/DE" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>DE</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Deutschland" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Deutschland</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Galerie" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Galerie</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Germany" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Germany</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Hannover" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Hannover</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Niedersachsen" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Niedersachsen</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Varials" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Varials</span></a></p>
Retroworldnews<p>Being in a relationship with a narcissist can feel like you’re constantly navigating an emotional minefield. You may know the manipulation is coming—the gaslighting, the blame-shifting, the refusal to take responsibility—but that knowledge doesn’t soften the blow. <br><a href="https://retroworldnews.com/how-narcissists-use-reactive-abuse-to-manipulate-and-control-you/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">retroworldnews.com/how-narciss</span><span class="invisible">ists-use-reactive-abuse-to-manipulate-and-control-you/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Narcissism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Narcissism</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/ReactiveAbuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ReactiveAbuse</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/EmotionalManipulation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>EmotionalManipulation</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/ToxicRelationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ToxicRelationships</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/MentalHealthAwareness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MentalHealthAwareness</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/AbuseSurvivor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AbuseSurvivor</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/SelfCare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfCare</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/HealingJourney" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>HealingJourney</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/PsychologicalAbuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PsychologicalAbuse</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/TraumaRecovery" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TraumaRecovery</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/NarcissisticAbuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NarcissisticAbuse</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/life" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>life</span></a></p>
Edward Champion<p>I had to cut off an acquaintance this morning. He kept asking me for money. I gave him $200 over the last two years. I asked him politely to stop, but money was literally the ONLY time he'd text me. And what did he do this morning? He asked me for money again, taking advantage of my generosity. </p><p>I feel like utter shit. But this was necessary. I am trying to learn to stick up for my boundaries. This is a 180 from my usual tactics. All this is new and scary. But I'm doing it.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a></p>
Hacker News<p>I don't discuss politics with friends</p><p><a href="https://shwin.co/blog/why-i-dont-discuss-politics-with-friends" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">shwin.co/blog/why-i-dont-discu</span><span class="invisible">ss-politics-with-friends</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/HackerNews" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>HackerNews</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/I" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>I</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/discuss" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>discuss</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/politics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>politics</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/with" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>with</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/friends" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>friends</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/politics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>politics</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/friendships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>friendships</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/socialmedia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>socialmedia</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/discussions" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>discussions</span></a></p>
Santini Serenity<p>Learning to say no is a powerful skill that can help protect your time, energy, and boundaries. It's okay to prioritize your own needs and well-being. Remember, saying no doesn't make you unkind or selfish; it shows self-respect. Practice saying no confidently and without guilt. <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SelfCare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfCare</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/PersonalGrowth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PersonalGrowth</span></a></p><p><a href="https://santiniserenity.blogspot.com/2025/03/no-isnt-mean-why-setting-limits-helps.html" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">santiniserenity.blogspot.com/2</span><span class="invisible">025/03/no-isnt-mean-why-setting-limits-helps.html</span></a></p>
Narghiza Ergashova<p>Dealing with a <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Condescending" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Condescending</span></a> boss? So did I. Unfortunately, this can happen in some <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Workplaces" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Workplaces</span></a>, where the power dynamic feels one-sided, and you're expected to follow the tune that <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/PaysTheBills" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PaysTheBills</span></a>. However, not all workplaces or <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Cultures" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Cultures</span></a> operate this way. You have the <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Power" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Power</span></a> to set <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Boundaries</span></a>, communicate <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Effectively" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Effectively</span></a>, and <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Advocate" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Advocate</span></a> for yourself. Take steps to reclaim your confidence and create a healthier professional space for yourself.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ClaimYourPower" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ClaimYourPower</span></a> with Narghiza Ergashova</p>
PatternChaser<p>These might look <a href="https://mas.to/tags/lazy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>lazy</span></a>, but are actually reasonable strategies:</p><p>- resist pointless <a href="https://mas.to/tags/tasks" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tasks</span></a> to create time for deep thinking,<br>- set <a href="https://mas.to/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a> at work to avoid <a href="https://mas.to/tags/burnout" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>burnout</span></a>,<br>- say “no” to tasks, resisting that we should always strive to <a href="https://mas.to/tags/produce" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>produce</span></a> more,<br>- automate <a href="https://mas.to/tags/repetitive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>repetitive</span></a> tasks to free up time for <a href="https://mas.to/tags/creative" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>creative</span></a> tasks.</p><p><a href="https://theconversation.com/why-being-lazy-at-work-might-actually-be-a-good-thing-248955" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">theconversation.com/why-being-</span><span class="invisible">lazy-at-work-might-actually-be-a-good-thing-248955</span></a></p>
-0--1-<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@wcooperbooks" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>wcooperbooks</span></a></span> My <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Armchair" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Armchair</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/diagnosis" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>diagnosis</span></a> is that he is a <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ShortDarkTriad" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ShortDarkTriad</span></a> or <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ShortDarkQuad" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ShortDarkQuad</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Narcissist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Narcissist</span></a>. It is more common to find them in the <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/CSuite" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CSuite</span></a> set. Moreover, because he is wealthy, he has never experienced <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Boundaries</span></a> and <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Limitations" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Limitations</span></a> and if he did, the culture he is from taught him to ignore boundaries <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ThinkOutOfTheBox" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ThinkOutOfTheBox</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/BreakDownBarriers" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BreakDownBarriers</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/WINTHEGAME" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>WINTHEGAME</span></a> and drink the blood of his enemy's children out of their skulls while he rapes their wives.</p>