Hey there. Figured I should make an introduction post of some sort, so here we go.
My name is Claire. You might know me by the handles chapien, chappydev, chapien_byte, chappybte, ClaireByte. But really, just Claire is fine. I'm an asexual transwoman living in the Pacific Northwest. I have kind of bad opsec, but I've been online for so long that I've kind of accepted that my privacy is dead. I am however trying to move away from big social network sites and into self hosting as much as I can.
I have a blog where I write short stories, as well as posts about mental health and LGBT issues.
https://chapien.net/
You can find links to other social media I use, including tumblr, bluesky, and a few other fedi places, at my self hosted linktree.
You can message me on the Matrix @chapien:transgirl.cafe.
A few things about me. I have ADHD, OCD, and OCPD (which is different from OCD). My OCPD can make me very argumentative, and I can lash out. I am trying to be better, and I have been improving. That said, I do have a request on how you can make this easier for me. I have a flowchart that I follow when I feel an argument is escalating. If I ask for something to be dropped, please drop it. In the interest of openness, I've attached that flowchart. If you have any questions about OCPD, I'd be happy to answer them!
Finally, my account is directed to an 18+ audience. Do not message me if you are under 18.
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